ESSENTIAL INFO: Male, Right handed, 47 yrs old
SYMPTOMS: persistent pain and stiffness in left shoulder and neck
CONFLICTS: Intellectual Self devaluation Conflict (neck), Relationship Self Devaluation Conflict (shoulder) – can be experienced as a Loss of Self Worth
Left sided: related to mother / child if right handed.
Info:
- Persistent for 3 months
- Eased during the evening, usually about 6pm
- what happened at 6pm?
- Son came home from work
- Family had dinner
- what happened at 6pm?
- Worse overnight and in the morning
Cause:
- Son was not valued by his company by being paid the full wage (loss of self worth)
or acknowledged for finishing his apprenticeship (intellectual self devaluation) - He had an empathic DHS for his son
- would be conflict active when his son came home and was stressed about his work and not having his full wage agreed, therefore symptoms would ease (as there are no symptoms in conflict active phase)
- when he became distracted by the evening’s activities, the conflict resolved and therefore inflammation / pain would begin
SOLUTION:
Just understanding the conflict significantly improved the pain, as there was then no resistance or fear, allowing the healing to happen and not adding to self devaluation further.
Further advice was to neutralise the track of his son coming home eg. change the focus of questioning when he arrived home
The pain went completely within 2 days of his son receiving his full wage!
Another interesting aspect of this to note. Our son is actually Lloyd’s stepson from an early age and we often forget this and he is completely thought of as his own son, particularly due to him not having contact with his natural father. So this proves that not only can an empathic DHS be experienced, but also the mother/child side can be experienced for someone you perceive to be mother/child.
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